i read something today

and because of it I'm starting a list of things I'd like to tell Timbuctoo to think about but feel like I'd be pushing him to break up with his gf which I don't wanna do:

1. In "Chatelain" (I think):"Like a good marriage, a good friendship is comprimising during transitions"...I think...which made me think that maybe he should ask himself whether his gf has transitioned but he hasn't yet....or if he is just not going to transition...

2. From "This is your life" by Switchfoot:

yesterday is a promise that you've broken
don't close your eyes, don't close your eyes
this is your life and today is all you've got now
yeah, and today is all you'll ever have
don't close your eyes
don't close your eyes

this is your life, are you who you want to be
this is your life, are you who you want to be
this is your life, is it everything you dreamed that it would be
when the world was younger and you had everything to lose

...I just want to shake him and ask him if he's afraid to have what he really wants. Because if someone asked me the answer would be yes....

3.Leave by REM and Radiohead: "Where do I go where the land touches the sea"...this man is him...