About Pop
To be honest, Pop is one of my favorite topics. All of my close friends except Pop and Smileys have heard all about Pop. In fact, I've been thinking about Pop since mid-September. And according to Q, we are dating without any of the benefits. And my roomie has taken to telling everyone she can that we are in love and that she wants to be a bridesmaid at our wedding.
You can see my hesitation. But maybe it's my own fault.
Pop is this wonderful guy I met during orientation. Part of the cool little crowd of friends roomie and I have amassed. And I have fun with him. He's smart, introspective, musical, athletic. Just plain interesting. Sadly, he is passive. And it drives me nuts. I absolutely LOVE spending time with him. And to be honest, I also love waiting to see if tonight he'll kiss me, but he never does. He just casts me a wistful look as he walks out my door.
He's great. He really is, but I really don't know if I just find him so attractive because there is a SERIOUS lack of options in my current locale. I mean, I'm not VERY attracted to him physically, but that mostly has to do with the fact that he presents such a passive exterior. And I can't say I am crazy about his hairstyle, though in all honesty, I can't really imagine what I would be crazy about.
Anyway, great guy. Don't get me wrong. He's awesome. Gives an A+ back massage. But as for our compatibility? Doubtful. Sigh.
He's either a great kisser or a terrible kisser, and I just am not sure I want to know either way.
You can see my hesitation. But maybe it's my own fault.
Pop is this wonderful guy I met during orientation. Part of the cool little crowd of friends roomie and I have amassed. And I have fun with him. He's smart, introspective, musical, athletic. Just plain interesting. Sadly, he is passive. And it drives me nuts. I absolutely LOVE spending time with him. And to be honest, I also love waiting to see if tonight he'll kiss me, but he never does. He just casts me a wistful look as he walks out my door.
He's great. He really is, but I really don't know if I just find him so attractive because there is a SERIOUS lack of options in my current locale. I mean, I'm not VERY attracted to him physically, but that mostly has to do with the fact that he presents such a passive exterior. And I can't say I am crazy about his hairstyle, though in all honesty, I can't really imagine what I would be crazy about.
Anyway, great guy. Don't get me wrong. He's awesome. Gives an A+ back massage. But as for our compatibility? Doubtful. Sigh.
He's either a great kisser or a terrible kisser, and I just am not sure I want to know either way.
posted by Camel at 8:09 p.m.
2 Comments:
Alas, you've explained who Pop is...
well, judging by what you've written, i'd say follow what your'head' says not what your 'heart' says, coz if your heart says 'pop' then everything's going WRONG! The head thinks logically, whereas the heart thinks of what it needs to feel happy. I know you want to be happy, but do you really wanna go thru the "o, it's over between us, and everything's awkwards, i lost a really good friend"? do you really wanna do that? No, i thought so...you're smarter than that! ;)
Isn't it creepy when your friends say "o, they're in love, they're getting married, AND I'M THE WEDDING PLANNER" scares me to death actually..eek!
Take care Camel..hope you're feeling better :)
You know its true...I have really sort of lost interest in actually dating Pop. I just like to think about him. It would suck to deal with the awkward break up business. Not to mention that I hate the idea of telling everyone we are dating and then later that we are not dating. Poo poo on this dating thing.
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